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birthday dinner drama, sober GenZ, Asian glow, and money rules with friends
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In this episode, Elle discusses the social dynamics of splitting the bill during group dinners, particularly birthday dinners. She shares her "Spoiled Girlie" rules for managing these situations. Elle also dives into the cultural trend of GenZ drinking less alcohol, and the benefits this has on their health and finances. She further explores the "Asian Glow" phenomenon, explaining the health risks associated with it. The episode concludes with a discussion about managing expectations and surrounding yourself with people who share similar values when it comes to money and social interactions, emphasizing the importance of compatibility in these areas for overall happiness and well-being.
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Відео

don't dim your light for anyone... EVER.
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of 'Big Sis Advice', Elle encourages her listeners to never dim their light for anyone. She discusses the importance of being true to oneself and not allowing others to influence or suppress their natural shine. Elle suggests if people ...
Hollywood's deadbeat fathers, the empathy gap, and women refusing to bear sons
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Elle's podcast, the discussion focuses on the issue of 'deadbeat' Hollywood fathers and how they often abandon their children once they achieve fame. This trend is used as a representation to highlight the empathy gap between men and...
shark tank hypocrites, male gold diggers, and THE AUDACIOUS PROJECTION: "YoU'Re a GoLd diGgEr"
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle On today’s episode, we are talking about how men are the original gold diggers and you should be one too. We will cover how women are penalized for behaviors men are praised for and the sinister reason behind it. We are reacting to a clip from Shark Ta...
GOD WAS A WOMAN - a deep dive on catholicism, goddess worship, Jezebel, and how the matriarchy fell
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle delves into a discussion about a controversial commencement speech given by NFL kicker Harrison Butker Jr, which sparked backlash for suggesting that a woman's life truly begins with marriage and motherhood. Elle brings a unique p...
let them. let go. let GOD.
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of Big Sis Advice, Elle guides listeners on embracing the mantra of "let them, let go, and let God". She emphasizes the importance of maintaining peace and not letting others disturb it. She explains the concept of karma and encourages ...
the downfall of dating apps, “nice” guys, right wing women, and revelations
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this podcast episode, Elle delves into the downfall of dating apps, focusing on Bumble. She discusses the controversy surrounding Bumble's recent billboard ads and the backlash primarily from women. Elle then delves into the history of Bumble, found...
they're not TRAD WIVES... they're just RICH
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Try Rocket Money for free: RocketMoney.com/Manifestelle #rocketmoney #personalfinance In this episode, Elle discusses the rising trend amongst influencers like Nara Smith, Ballerina Farm aka Hannah Neeleman, and Emily Mariko who are wealthy, educated women showcasing domesticity and simple living rather than luxurious lifestyles. Elle argues this reflects the current societal value of time, pea...
debunking the MALE FANTASY - candid girlfriend, cool girl, manic pixie dream girl
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the stereotypes and societal expectations placed upon women, focusing on the concepts of the candid girlfriend, cool girl, manic pixie dream girl, and brain rot core. She ponders whether women are required to perform the...
even men don't trust other men*... but we're supposed to? lol no.
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of her podcast, Elle dives into the discussion around women's fear of men, triggered by a social media trend where women were asked to choose between being trapped in the woods with a man or a bear. Elle unpacks the universal fear women...
the rise of LOSER men - consequence of women’s liberation or men’s ENTITLEMENT to women?
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Subscribe to the free ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle On this episode, Elle discusses the rise of loser men and how this phenomenon is less a consequence of women's liberation and more men's entitlement to women. Elle reacts to a video of a woman taking her baby father to a job interview at a fast food ch...
grown men will NEVER need your help - STOP HOUSING THE HOMELESS!
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Subscribe to the ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses a wild Coachella story. The narrative follows a group of men who exploited their connection to one woman to gain temporary housing during the festival. Elle emphasizes the importance of enforcing boundaries, especially in co-...
hookup culture is PSYCHOPATHIC [traditional baby daddy gets IG model pregnant then leaves her]
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Subscribe to the ManifesTEA Newsletter: manifestelle.substack.com Get the SGSG hoodie: shopisla.co Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the detrimental impacts of hookup culture and the behaviors of certain men. She criticizes men who irresponsibly impregnate women and then coerce them into terminations, labeling such behavior as psychopathic. Elle zeroes in ...
the ultimate PICKME never gets picked + red pillers are trad dupes
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In this episode, Elle covers why the ultimate PICKME never gets picked because of the FREE BIRD THEORY. She also critiques "red pillers" who preach traditional values without having been raised in them and so they take the worst parts of tradition and pass it off as the real thing. This episode is part of the "spoiled girlie support group" series where Elle encourages discernment, choosing the ...
the PICKME mom and NPC dad epidemic - daughters used for fame and money
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The first 500 people to use my link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare skl.sh/manifestelle04241 In this episode, Elle delves into the topic of parents using their children for personal gain, especially focusing on mothers who prioritize their own desires for validation, fame, and wealth over their children's well-being. She discusses notable cases such as the experiences of Jennette Mc...
50/50 men are in survival mode [generational wealth, free bird theory]
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50/50 men are in survival mode [generational wealth, free bird theory]
weak men hurt women bc they're women-adjacent [men* punching NYC women]
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weak men hurt women bc they're women-adjacent [men* punching NYC women]
being BASIC is an act of self-love
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being BASIC is an act of self-love
men* date OUT of their league then ruin women's lives [the paradoxical cycle]
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men* date OUT of their league then ruin women's lives [the paradoxical cycle]
the good men are OFFLINE
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the good men are OFFLINE
trad wives are indentured servants? - life after trad wife [broke, homeless, regret]
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trad wives are indentured servants? - life after trad wife [broke, homeless, regret]
healing our relationship with beauty [unpacking aging, beauty standards, radical acceptance]
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healing our relationship with beauty [unpacking aging, beauty standards, radical acceptance]
how to reclaim feminine energy [from masculine and miserable to feminine and thriving]
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how to reclaim feminine energy [from masculine and miserable to feminine and thriving]
who TF did I marry? [listen to your gut - divine intervention, intuition, discernment]
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who TF did I marry? [listen to your gut - divine intervention, intuition, discernment]
women are giving up on men [south korea’s 4B movement]
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women are giving up on men [south korea’s 4B movement]
how to make female friendships EASY [4 mindset shifts]
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how to make female friendships EASY [4 mindset shifts]
hating women is trendy BUT WHY? [caleb hammer financial audit]
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hating women is trendy BUT WHY? [caleb hammer financial audit]
men's obsession with women's “purity” and innocence + let’s talk about privilege[poor things review]
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men's obsession with women's “purity” and innocence let’s talk about privilege[poor things review]
"i'm dating a broke guy but he has a great personality" [no he doesn't]
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"i'm dating a broke guy but he has a great personality" [no he doesn't]
"everything works out for me" [lucky girl + midas vibes]
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"everything works out for me" [lucky girl midas vibes]

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @MillieFreckles
    @MillieFreckles 3 години тому

    In Japan, the proposal ring is expected to be worth 3 months of ask-er's income. I'm not here to attack. Just to give the fellow girlies FYI if you start to doubt your worth.

  • @siennide
    @siennide 5 годин тому

    This is a really great and helpful video, but I have to ask, how do you deal with girls who are inexplicably rude and unfriendly to you yet are also much more successful than you. There is this girl in my class that I will admit, I really admire. She gets good grades and is really popular and friendly to every other girl except me. I don't know why, we share a lot of the same values and I've never been rude to her back, but consistently she has ignored me even when we are in the same conversations. Im very bad at reading emotions or intent (which could be why) but I swear It feels a bit like jealousy but I really cant see how since she is better than me in basically every way. Im beginning to really dislike her but I still admire her, and its just making me feel like a very negative person which isn't what I want to be.

  • @LouisaWatt
    @LouisaWatt 7 годин тому

    Girl… you know what you’re talking about. I wish I had been a spoiled girlie before I turned 40 but I wasn’t and I got put through the wringer by below-bare-minimum men. I’m glad to say I reclaimed my self-worth and am now married to a man who DIDN’T string me along for years, low-ball me, or expect to gain from my labour without contributing to my life. So much better being in a relationship with a functional adult.

  • @capsilanolene9376
    @capsilanolene9376 8 годин тому

    God would ask me I would say NO.

  • @sssssssssnakes
    @sssssssssnakes 8 годин тому

    17:07 that bear is so cute aw ❤

  • @zenlife321
    @zenlife321 8 годин тому

    I have a 6 figure semi-passive income. I have an education. I own a brand new home. My home is my only debt. I have life insurance and equity in my home. I do not have a bf or a husband. I do want one, but I’m also good on my own with my adult kids and friends. . He won’t change how I live or what I own. This is the new “Trad wife” flex girls. Give YOURSELF the lifestyle….💗🙏🌺

  • @capsilanolene9376
    @capsilanolene9376 8 годин тому

    I love you ! Finally some comon sense and no moral pick me around that secretly hate woman.

  • @TuesdaysMusica
    @TuesdaysMusica 8 годин тому

    There are plenty of men and women cheating on their partners, all these cliches and stereotypes need too go

  • @brendaduke2165
    @brendaduke2165 9 годин тому

    Your mind is not basic

  • @Dassydawn
    @Dassydawn 10 годин тому

    Def has happened to me in the past. I've been single and celibate for 8 months and I'm more attractive than I've been in over a decade. Bad, toxic relationships have stressed me, made me gain lbs, made me angry and low self esteem.

  • @ThetrueripaH
    @ThetrueripaH 10 годин тому

    My English teacher used to call a girl in my class elegant/graceful because everytime she saw her sheld be smiling and expressive ( this was a school with a uniform she didn’t wear makeup and her hair was always in a ponysail) she used to say she could always know how she felt through her face and that she was polite to everyone plus she said she would never give one word answers she always had something to say and that her strong moral code made her seem extremely well raised everyone at school loved this girl to pieces (Mashallah)

  • @PhoneTest-vf3gv
    @PhoneTest-vf3gv 11 годин тому

    Totally yes. Women must be ready to leave. Be it toxic men, toxic friendships, toxic workplaces, toxic relations. Women expected to tolerate it all and accepting any crumbs is root cause of all problems. They are taken for granted. Stop believing in nonsense like 'you have to adjust, you have to make it work, or else you will be alone'. Stop being fooled in name of keeping it together, sacrifice, submission, tolerance. Ignore their blackmail. Stop giving chances. Stop trying to see good in others. Stop hoping they will change one day.

  • @soumyajoseph7429
    @soumyajoseph7429 12 годин тому

    My ex-pastor said "boys will be boys" - so toxic.

  • @nerianeria4555
    @nerianeria4555 13 годин тому

    A lot of time men will not leave a woman because at bare minimum they benefit from having a partner.

  • @mariayo4284
    @mariayo4284 14 годин тому

    I tried fasting and it resulted in having no ovulation; now I am back to eating "normally" and being hormonally balanced. Feeling fertile is whole new level of attractiveness.

  • @ashleylarsen5294
    @ashleylarsen5294 14 годин тому

    This is true..act in the way you EXPECT to be treated. Sometimes, guys just don’t know, especially today. When I first went out with my husband..he was 22 out of college. He walked into the restaurant and I waited outside for 3 seconds before he realized I wasn’t trailing behind. I said to him nicely “you don’t know how to hold the door for a lady?” We’ve been together almost 10 years and I’ve never walked through another door that wasn’t being held for me. Side note: yes, I’m aware I can open my own door but I can’t make an entrance if I’m doing all the work. Let your MAN do it! He should be proud of you.

  • @Wee_Catalyst
    @Wee_Catalyst 15 годин тому

    When that guy said “m.A.r.R.i.a.G.e” at the end I immediately thought “d.I.v.O.r.C.e.” 🤨🤨🤨

  • @Wee_Catalyst
    @Wee_Catalyst 15 годин тому

    I get that peeling the orange is a metaphor but I don’t want someone else’s fingers touching my food 😅😅😅

  • @chrisnall721
    @chrisnall721 15 годин тому

    I love manifestelle so much. Darling I love you. But hey, you can still be the cool girl and have standards. She's too cool, she's too cool for school, and she's too cool for you. Marilyn was too cool. And she was actually an intellectual. So...

  • @Wee_Catalyst
    @Wee_Catalyst 15 годин тому

    “You’re literally the bouncer to the club of the next generation” 👏🏼✨💖

  • @hisureiss6618
    @hisureiss6618 15 годин тому

    love the video but the nasally baby voice is unbearable

  • @miaaiyana
    @miaaiyana 16 годин тому

    GIRL i love how you discuss the filipino culture in the video! <3

  • @drdeb-lg4sz
    @drdeb-lg4sz 16 годин тому

    Most men do NOT want to have kids. I repeat-they do NOT. Some think they do, but these are the ones that think kids are solely the women’s responsibility (70% of men in North America according to polls), and hers alone-no matter what she is dealing with personally. And therefore they’re absolved of doing any real parenting in their minds. The rest mostly are just going along with what their partner wants or what society dictates. Ladies-if you really want kids, make sure you’re prepared to do *everything* all on your own, bc 50% of marriages end in divorce and who gets saddled with the kids but with virtually no money to care for them? Women. And even if you stay with your partner, the vast majority of men don’t want to get their hands dirty with endless illnesses, constant training and explanations, teaching good manners, helping with homework, dealing with short or long term behavioral problems, etc etc. They just don’t and won’t, and there’s really nothing that can be done about that once the kids are already on this planet. Please protect yourselves and be real when considering children. 💜

  • @mariayo4284
    @mariayo4284 16 годин тому

    one of the best episodes

  • @-beTHEchange-123-
    @-beTHEchange-123- 17 годин тому

    I LOVE your honesty sis

  • @-beTHEchange-123-
    @-beTHEchange-123- 17 годин тому

    Omg new favorite person. Love how you put the video together. So informative and fun

  • @gio.rochasm
    @gio.rochasm 21 годину тому

    hi! this is my first day of WAKING UP. Last night I connected with the divine feminine (or with the social conflict between men and women if you are not spiritual) and I wrote a small sequence of chords down: fa la si la si la re re. Maybe it's just dumb, but I feel like sharing thees vibrations with all women. Let's unite. We are FAMILY I am here to support you, and I hope you all learn to do the same for me. Bless you.

    • @gio.rochasm
      @gio.rochasm 21 годину тому

      If you want take these chords and write your own thing with it!!!!!! ABUNDANCE

  • @hellothere4724
    @hellothere4724 21 годину тому

    My Mom is 94. She always made her own money and had her own bank account. She was married 60 years to my Dad. She isn’t college educated but she worked for the post office and has her own pension.

  • @plantbasedposer
    @plantbasedposer 21 годину тому

    "Oh my gut health!" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @smoofinatorftw
    @smoofinatorftw 22 години тому

    My money is my money. We share bill paying, but from our own separate accounts. I don't want to have to explain my spending habits to ANYONE. If i want to buy oven mitts shaped like lobster claws because they are hilarious (they are), I should be able to do that without having to justify it.

  • @junkonatsumizaka5149
    @junkonatsumizaka5149 23 години тому

    I asked my bf what he would do and gave him no context. He answered perfectly! "I'd only loan out my clothes to you. You'd look cute in my clothes." "I'd ask you about the sandwich and offer to split it with you, or tell her I didn't feel like going all the way over there to pick up a sandwich." "I don't accept friend requests from anyone anyways." (He's not online at all unless it's to answer my dm's!)

  • @lampyrisnoctiluca9904
    @lampyrisnoctiluca9904 23 години тому

    So, we have Karens, Chads, Kevins, Beckies... Now the new girl came to the club: Emily.

  • @evergreen1326
    @evergreen1326 День тому

    She is a bit harsh but i really like that she goes into that direction because some women need a cold shower to wake up

  • @lawshorizon
    @lawshorizon День тому

    Doesn't anyone ever get married anymore because they actually liked the other person?

  • @evergreen1326
    @evergreen1326 День тому

    Splitting the bill has nothing to do with men showing the bare minimum and it's not a feminist thing that is wrong. It's up to you, but for me, it was never a problem. Especially i didn't even go to a date w sb i didn't like due to this principle. And you don't have to always go to places to spend money. My bf of 5 years and I earn the same (which is very crazy in this mysoginistic society, i know i am lucky). We each pay our part in things and prefer to spend money on little gifts rather. This also helped him very much understand that he is not just a tool for providing money. He has his own personality, own needs, and own will etcetc. With the rest I agree 100%. I don't even LOOK into the direction of a men who feels entitled. I prefer to oberve them from hiw they treat other people, not just women. It's so visible and I don't want to have anything to do with these men.

  • @mingyufloofy157
    @mingyufloofy157 День тому

    I know a person who married the wrong man. Early retirement and now heavily sick due to bad lifestyle (and girl says he was not like that before). Now she works while also takes care of her sick mouthful husband. I'm traumatized of witnessing that

  • @Wee_Catalyst
    @Wee_Catalyst День тому

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @NatBKiev
    @NatBKiev День тому

    Now imagine if a woman neglected her boyfriend and her responsibilities but spent his money and when confronted said something along the lines: “I had more important things to do. You’re not my priority”

  • @0naveenacharles0
    @0naveenacharles0 День тому

    That intro gave me the goosebumps!🙌

  • @skylerricketts7392
    @skylerricketts7392 День тому

    Aqua Tofana sent me

  • @MadQueen772
    @MadQueen772 День тому

    For the last two weekends, I’ve gone to lunch with a friend at a particular restaurant. For two weeks in a row, there were two different women yelling asking to speak to the manager. It’s always the same type of ppl yelling in public. I’m sorry. Can’t do it. Tired of them.

  • @ninahong7532
    @ninahong7532 День тому

    Thankfully my "pick-me" era is behind me (hopefully XD). My husband and I are working on the motto of "feel whatever you need to feel but you CANNOT be cruel." I wish all the lovely ladies in here to either get or maintain their entitle spoiled girly lifestyle :D.

  • @karenvr1825
    @karenvr1825 День тому

    Traducir texto con la cámara I am Salvadoreña. In Latin American countries like El Salvador, there is a serious problem with femenicides, street harassment and sexual abuse. Here there was a case of 5 men who raped a 12-year-old girl. I have sincerely decided not to interact, even on dates, marriages, and girlfriends with men and I do not want to have children in the world, I prefer to focus on helping my community and focus on my money, studies and mental, physical and spiritual health.

  • @Her844
    @Her844 День тому

    Daughters are best ❤❤❤

  • @Her844
    @Her844 День тому

    Love you besti

  • @annak804
    @annak804 День тому

    Home makers should receive some sort of allowance for their own care

  • @OmniLoved
    @OmniLoved День тому

    We as women have inherent value. Men have to “court” us to gain access to us - not the other way around.

  • @KarsonsChannel
    @KarsonsChannel День тому

    Top 10% of guys be like “Look at me, I’m the hot chick now.” (Captain Philips meme)

  • @smawrtygowty5269
    @smawrtygowty5269 День тому

    I do get this whole thing and I’m celibate myself after leaving an abusive ex. I don’t feel like this whole thing is fully premeditated. I also feel we don’t need to be women versus men. We need each other to live be it plutonic or romantic or just family. Yes fight back by being celibate but don’t view every man as a villain there are good men out there . I agree the dating apps are bs go talk to People in person, especially people who don’t live solely online. The reason why this all seem like all men is because social media is actively trying to separate women and men. Please don’t let this be the case. Most real men don’t just stay on the internet they actually have lives the terrible men online and broadcasted does not represent the majority of men. The internet is going to constantly bait to pit us against each regardless of identity. Don’t let them win and be celibate if you choose to be. Don’t let them win. I’m celibate because I know s£x is more fulfilling and more pleasurable if you feel connected to someone. The “signs” being given to us was because s£x sells. S£x is just overrated as the best thing ever and it can be if they know your body and stuff man or woman or even trans. Intimacy transcends intercourse it’s like a connection between you and someone who willingly put the effort to know you because you’re special to them same for you. We’re not just to be f*cked we’re to be genuinely loved and valued, respected regardless of s£x or resources. These are very confusing times please be there for each other.

  • @Wee_Catalyst
    @Wee_Catalyst День тому

    “He has a jacked sense of humor” FACTS, THANK YOU